aisha / aka ace / 18 / east coast livin' / princeton frosh / aspiring journalist.

tooting my horn: day 5 (my reason for being single on V-day)

My reason? The right guy just hasn’t come along yet. Simple as that. I don’t need a guy to verify that I’m pretty, or that I’m interesting or anything else about myself.

I have a handful of friends that try to substitute boyfriends for confidence, and so far it hasn’t worked for them. You just can’t rely on other people for that trait. I think I’m at a point in my life right now where I have enough confidence/self-esteem and respect for myself that I’ll know when a guy is worth my time and when he isn’t. It may sound corny but.. my advice is to have a relationship with yourself, before anyone else. 

So right now, I’m doin’ me. Valentine’s Day and every day. 

If you’re gonna be single tomorrow (or today depending on where you are) then I suggest you do the same. And hey, my fellow singles, don’t hate on all the happy couples out there. One day that’ll be us ;] ♥

  1. aroundthegrove said: well said.
  2. theacegame posted this